I read today that your first experience with anything defines you.
What they say is true, first impressions matter.
It’s psychologic.

A first kiss, learning experience, relationship.
It sets the tone for the rest of your life.
Your mind judges and tries to conform repeat experiences with the first experience.
This is called transference.

Transference is hard to break.
Especially if you had a bad experience.
What separates world class performers from the rest, is the ability to